HOW TO - SELF LOVE AND CONFIDENCE

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I don't really think that i'm even eligible to give tips on this topic because self love and confidence is something that i've been struggling ever since i was a kid. Yes, a kid. Sad..i know.

But you know what , there is no harm trying.. right?

These are some tips that i found very fascinating and meaningful.

Let us all try these tips together. Who knows, may be we will end up being the happiest we've ever been. <3

First thing first,

WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT TO LOVE YOURSELF?


 In my opinion, loving yourself is the best thing you can do for yourself.In the only we are there for us. Right?

If the "loving yourself " part is done, then the rest will come on its own.If you love yourself, you will be so so sooo much happier and who doesn't want that.
When we act in ways that expand self love in us, we start to accept much better our weaknesses as well as our strengths.


Okay, now lets jump on to the yips. Shall we?


HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF - 5 TIPS


1. TREAT YOURSELF LIKE YOU TREAT A SMALL KID


     I got this first tip from a youtube video i was watching a few days back.
     It is very simple but if you think about it it is very meaningful.Treat yourself as if you are a small       kid.
     Would you ever insult a small kid? Would you ever call them ugly or unworthy? NO, right? (if             Yes, the you are an evil person...JK)


2. BE YOUR OWN BFF


    Feeling down? Come on cheer your BFF up.
    encourage him/her.Hype them up.
    because you know that's what best friends do ;)


3. START YOUR DAY POSITIVE


    Start each day by telling yourself something really positive. 
    For instance, you can say "girl you look so flawless today" or "the decision you took during that          situation was amazing" and so on.

    It is super easy, but super effective.


4. CALM YOUR MIND


    take time out to calm your mind every single day.
    Just take deep breaths.Just breath in and out, clear your mind and that's it.


5. STOP COMPARISON


    Why do you have to compare yourself to that random girl you saw on Instagram?
    there is no one else like you girl/boy.Even if you wish to look like her, u CAN'T.That's because            everyone's body is made different.So why waste time wishing to have someone else's body when        you yourself have an amazing one.


WOW, i fell better already.
Try them out guys, or at least read them a few times.That would help too.

also if you want someone to talk to, feel free to leave a comment.

lots of love <3

ADIOS ;)








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